brendamargriet~  By Brenda Margriet

Note: On Wednesday, we posted an alternate view of National Novel Writing Month

I am currently not writing. It doesn’t feel good, but I am trying not to beat myself up about it. So with NaNoWriMo going full swing and many of my online writer friends posting amazing word counts I just want to say:

Shut up already!

Okay, maybe that’s a bit harsh. But for those of us (and I know you’re out there!) who aren’t doing NaNoWriMo for whatever reason, here’s some encouragement on getting through the month and beyond.

Live your life

Yes, in order to be a better writer, to finish a book, to make a sale, you have to write. But you also have to read books you love, discover new authors. You have to watch the world go by, study people in a coffee shop, spend time enjoying your surroundings.

All these things colour your words, and can often get ignored while under the pressure of hitting a deadline or daily word count. Use this down time to experience life, to store up feelings and sensations and observations so that the next time you are writing in a white heat, you have them to draw on.

Keep writing – even when you can’t

I may not be working on my next romance, but I am still writing. I’m doing this blog post, as well as blogging weekly on my own site. I’m lucky enough that my day job also involves creative writing to a certain extent, so I am working there. I am networking with other writers on Facebook through Messenger, which is also writing.

It’s not, you say?

Well, think of it as a writing dialogue exercise. Study the patterns of the people you are messaging with. How does what they write “sound” different than what you write? How can you use that once you are again putting words on paper?

This too shall pass

Unless you’re dealing with a true crisis of faith in your writing, remind yourself of all the times this has happened before. ‘Fess up – you know it has. My first book took more than ten years to finish. I certainly wasn’t writing every day during that time, and yet I GOT IT DONE!

Since publishing that book in October 2012, I have completed five more manuscripts and published two (soon to be three) of them. When I consider the ten-plus years MOUNTAIN FIRE took to complete, that’s a furious pace for me.

During that time, I’ve also taken on a fairly stressful management level day job, helped three children grow to adulthood, and been generally busy. Maybe the last few weeks has simply been my brain telling me it needs a break.

Remember who you are and where you came from

I think part of the worry and frustration for me, personally, is I feel like I am wasting precious moments of writing time. I usually work on my novels for about 1.5 hours a day, maybe slightly more on weekends. With such a limited amount of time to write, any day I don’t use that time makes me feel like I am falling deeper into writing “debt.”

Yet even when I am writing full steam ahead, my daily quota is only 500 words. It’s a total I find reasonably easy to achieve even on a bad day, and if I don’t it is also reasonably easy to catch up. Would I love to have a higher number? Sure! Would it do any good? Probably not.  I have to stop comparing myself to those writers who have published 30, 40, even 50 books since the self-publishing craze caught on. They are who they are – I am who I am. I am not a risk taker.

I need the stability of a regular paycheck. Maybe someday that will be from writing. But until it is, I need to accept my limitations and work within them.

How do you deal with not writing? Do you have a daily quota? If you do, do you find yourself wishing you could do more, no matter what it is? How are you planning to survive NaNoWriMo?

Brenda Margriet writes contemporary romances with heroes you’d meet at the grocery store. And by that she means real-life men – sexy, smart and looking for the love of their life. Her heroines are bold, savvy and determined to accept nothing less than the man they deserve.

A voracious reader since she was old enough to hold a book, Brenda’s idea of the perfect holiday involves a comfortable chair near the water (ocean, lake or pool will do), a glass of wine, and a full-loaded e-reader.

She lives in Northern British Columbia with her husband (as well as various funny and furry pets) and has three adult children. Find out more about Brenda on her website www.brendamargriet.com

4 comments to “Surviving NaNoWriMo When You’re Not Writing”

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  1. Jo Richardson - Nov 04, 2016 Reply

    LOL Margaret. I can totally hear Cher in my head for some reason with “Shut up already!” Right there with you on this and I love your thoughts on it. Just Breathe. It’s kind of a motto. And FYI, your words are worth the wait. LOVE YOU. XOXO

    • Brenda Margriet - Nov 04, 2016 Reply

      Thanks, Jo! I have a feeling I’m on my way out of the hole. I’m starting to feel motivated as well as itchy about not writing!

  2. Jenna - Nov 04, 2016 Reply

    I love this post Brenda! It totally sums up many of my feelings. Keep up the amazing work!

    • Brenda Margriet - Nov 04, 2016 Reply

      I figured there would be more than just me feeling this way, Jenna. 🙂 I hope you took something good away from it.

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